Harnessing the Power of the How We Feel App with Elliot, Your Relational Health Coach care model emotional intimacy emotional tracking tools relational health Dec 09, 2024

In today’s fast-paced world, understanding and managing your emotions can feel like a daunting task. The How We Feel app offers an innovative and intuitive way to track and reflect on your emotional journey. When paired with personalized coaching like what I provide as El

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Riding the Emotional Seesaw: A Caregiver’s Perspective balancingtheseesaw caregivingjourney emotionalresilience Nov 30, 2024

Caregiving often feels like living on an emotional seesaw, with its constant highs and lows. The small victories, like a shared smile or a peaceful moment, can lift you up. But the lows? They can leave you feeling completely paralyzed.

On those low days, the weight of worry, exhaustion, and fear is...

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Introducing the CARE Model: Transforming Emotional Connection in Cancer Care cancer care relationships care model emotional intimacy relational health coaching resilience Nov 20, 2024

The CARE Model is a powerful, structured approach designed to deepen emotional intimacy, improve communication, and build resilience between brain cancer patients and their partners. Rooted in relational health coaching principles, the CARE Model focuses on fostering understanding, appreciation, and...

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How Subtle Spiritual Warfare Erodes Hope and Resilience in Times of Illness caregiversupport faithinadversity innerstruggle resilienceindarkness rurallifereflections spiritualwarfare Nov 13, 2024

My Dear Wormwood,

I understand your Patient is supporting his wife through a particularly difficult trial—a rare and dreadful brain cancer. This sort of ordeal is fertile ground for our purposes, if managed correctly, though I must caution you against allowing too much overt suffering. While physic...

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How to Use Otter.ai to Capture Key Details During Brain Cancer Appointments aiinhealthcare braincancersupport caregiversuseai caregivertools medicalappointments patientadvocacy Nov 11, 2024

As a caregiver or patient dealing with the complexities of brain cancer, capturing every detail from oncology appointments is crucial. These sessions are often fast-paced and filled with critical information that can be hard to remember. Otter.ai, an AI-powered transcription tool, can help you make ...

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Bridging Eternal Promises with Present Pain: Navigating Faith Through Life's Hardest Trials adversity caregiving encouragement faith family hope lament resilience spirituality strength suffering trust Nov 04, 2024

The hardest part of my faith is to bring the eternal promises of faith into my present circumstances.  This is a blog to remind myself how although its the hardest thing to do when Tracy's health tends to be my deepest desire.

 

1. Acknowledge the Tension

The hardest part of faith is often reconc...

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The Cognitive Fog of Caregiving in Brain Cancer: Navigating Mental Fatigue in the Midst of Uncertainty brain cancer caregiver burnout caregiver mental health caregiving chronic stress cognitive fog compassion fatigue emotional strain memory loss Oct 30, 2024

Caregiving for a loved one with brain cancer is unlike any other journey. It’s an all-consuming experience that affects you physically, emotionally, and, perhaps most surprisingly, cognitively. As someone living through this, I often find myself feeling disoriented, forgetful, and mentally fatigued—...

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The “Mind-F*ck” of Caregiving: Navigating the "Cognitive Dissonance" Rollercoaster ambiguous loss caregiver guilt caregiver mental health caregiving cognitive dissonance coping strategies emotional whiplash glioblastoma grief Oct 19, 2024

Caring for someone with a brain-related condition, whether it’s a cognitive decline, injury, or progressive illness like glioblastoma, can feel like a constant assault on your mental well-being. Many caregivers describe the experience as a “mind-f*ck,” and it’s not hard to see why. Watching someone ...

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Why I Started Aware Coaching After Experiencing Devastating Pain and Suffering adversity growth hope overcoming pain purpose in pain relational health resilience strength suffering support Sep 23, 2024

When my wife Tracy was diagnosed with glioblastoma, our lives were completely shattered. The pain and suffering we went through were overwhelming, and there were moments when it felt like there was no way forward. But in the midst of that devastation, I found something unexpected: a deeper purpose. ...

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